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There has been some talk in the community, around why some men have a dislike for lesbian studs. For those who don't know, a lesbian stud is a masculine woman who is attracted to women. That definition in itself, troubles some and others struggle to understand it all. The label, in my opinion, is one of the biggest thing that causes so many misconceptions around who these people are. So, I have compiled a list of the Top 5 Misconceptions about Lesbian Studs in the Black Community in hopes of trying to clear up some of these ideas.
1. ALL STUDS WANT TO BE MEN
At the end of the day, studs are women. No matter what they are wearing, underneath the clothing they are still women. Many masculine women carry more traits and characteristics naturally. Alot of people seem to believe that it is faked and a persona, when it is a matter of their personality. What a woman wears does not establish her gender identity nor her sexuality. Which brings me to my number 2.
2. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A BISEXUAL STUD
I heard the craziest thing today. If you are a lesbian, then you should hate all penises, including plastic ones. A woman's body is made for penetration. Some prefer it, some have a strong dislike for it. Saying that there is no such thing as a] bisexual studs, shows a person's limited perspective about sexuality. What a woman wears does not determine her sexuality. Some women are simply more comfortable in a guys clothes. Think about all of the boyfriend jean and tshirt trends in women's department stores. When it all comes off you will still find
a pair of boobs and a VAJAYJAY. Penetration has everything to do with preference, and nothing to do with sexuality.
3. ALL STUDS CARRY THEIR STRAP-ONS IN THEIR BACKPACKS OR WEAR THEM 24/7
I hear jokes all the time from men who make jokes about studs needing to carry their "PIECE" in their stud starter pack lol or they wear them all the time. The funny thing is, this is not true. Studs do not always wear their straps. I make jokes all the time with my wife, saying she is like a superhero in a phone booth; meaning she gets it on quick, but only IF we are using it. Assuming that studs wear their piece all the time implies that they feel that they need it to please their women. Alot of "Studs" prefer sex without it. Why? She is a woman who still needs to be pleased. There is a mental and visual satisfaction of using her piece with her partner, but it is nothing like getting straight to the kitty! Thats the point in being a lesbian. Think about it and let's be honest, studs must be quick with putting on the piece if she wants to get sum, because moments pass quick! Of course it's in a backpack... where is will they put it? But they are not carrying with them or wearing them 24/7.
4. STUDS ARE OUT TO TAKE BLACK WOMEN FROM BLACK MEN
Ok this may rub some people the wrong way, but the fact of the matter is, no one can be taken from a relationship. If your girlfriend or wife can be taken she was never yours to begin with. However, when speaking about black women who choose to date studs or lesbians, we also have to address how uncomfortable most women are with being completely honest with their male partners about their sexuality. We see all too often women who have hidden their sexuality from their partners trying to save their ego or their feelings. Studs, in my opinion, are their go to because they believe they can emulate male/female gender roles with the stud easier than a feminine woman. Stud's aren't aiming to steal your women.
5. Studs shouldn't get pregnant.
For the 5th time, studs are women. Hopefully, this woman has a healthy reproductive system and a desire to have children one day. A stud choosing to have children does not have anything to do with her sexuality. I think this has a lot to do with people's understanding of what has to happen to get pregnant and the options available to women. Women have many options when becoming mothers. Adoption, Natural conception, and artificial conception. Many assume when they see a pregnant stud that she had sex with a man. Some dismiss the fact that a woman can also inseminate at home with home insemination kits and never be penetrated. Some women go through their doctors and have themselves inseminated. To say not all women can afford insemination because its costly, therefore she must have been penetrated is an ignorant statement to make and shows a person lack of knowledge when speaking about maternity.
Furthermore, a woman is still a mother. People shouldn't assume because a stud is on the masculine side of the spectrum that she will have her children call her daddy or that she will confuse the children. No matter what, a child knows who their mother is. A stud is still a woman; and if she gives birth or becomes a mother she will be that.
My point is, there is no cookie cutter model to help people understand the different types of masculine women there are. The only thing I can do is show you. Check out some of the dopest studs on the Fabb Femme Radio Network Page Below.